Sunday, July 06, 2008

Happiness - I am all ears!!!
With a shaky voice and her eyes filled with tears... She said... “I lost everything…I don’t care and It doesn’t matter anymore…I am old now” and she continued to clean the dishes and later made my bed. I was sitting at my work desk in Manchester, United States listening to this old lady from Albania who was once a carpet designer in her country. She classified herself among the upper middle class who lived in a small city called Fier along the coast of Albania.
She migrated to the US as a refugee in late 1996 after the outbreak of the civil war. She claimed that she lost all her wealth during that period and she along with her husband decided to migrate to the US as living in the her hometown had become too risky. I did not delve further because that would have only made her feel worse. Instead, I decided to show her some pictures of Albania that I had pulled out from Wikipedia and various other websites as we were speaking.
When I showed her the pictures, she exclaimed with joy! She quickly started talking about many historical sites and their importance. Some of the things she referred to were Ali pasha’s castle, the traditional folk music called the “Skrapar” and the Butrint [A UNESCO world heritage site]. She proudly acclaimed that she had been to many places in Albania as a kid and later travelled across the country with her husband.
While we were talking about various places, she also introduced me to the upcoming albanian pop star called “Anila mimani”. She started dancing when I played some songs from the youtube. Later, she quietly thanked me and left the place.
it was such an amazing feeling and a sense of completion that I derived out of this small incident. It was just an attempt from my side to make her happy and I knew I could not solve all her problems….but I am glad that I was all ears!!!!

6 Comments:

Blogger Excited 2 B Alive said...

Paatikkum route podaaremichitiya????!!!! :P

jokes apart, i think its such a wonderful gesture from ur side to have entertained her, knowing how busy u r these days...

But i guess, only ppl who r away from their hometowns know the real deal about how much the word 'home' cld mean!

7:24 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

sooper da machan...unakkulle sai baba vanthutaaru nnu nenaikkren...(pinna oru nallaiku 25 hrs kadalai pota (Sathya) Sai baba varama??!?!?)

GUM GUM

6:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i liked the song and ur post ;)
This is the link to the albanian song
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q38zb87zjrE

9:40 AM  
Blogger Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said...

Very nice and sensitive post :)
Others lending ears to our problem is indeed a great thing these days...

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